What is an Overthinker? 10 Signs You Might Be One

Article published at: Nov 13, 2025 Article author: Martin Atle Bjørgum Article tag: Blog
What is an Overthinker? 10 Signs You Might Be One
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Some people go with the flow. Others (hi, it’s us 👋) go with the flow… and then analyse the flow… and then replay the flow at 2:00 AM while staring at the ceiling.

If that sounds familiar, welcome to the club — the Overthinkers Club, to be exact.

Overthinking isn’t about being dramatic or indecisive. It’s usually a mix of care, caution, creativity, and a brain that likes pressing the “replay” button a little too often. And honestly? It’s more common than you think.

Here are 10 signs you might be an overthinker — all said with love, understanding, and a little humour.

1. You replay conversations long after they're over

Hours later you’re still thinking: “Why did I say that? Did they misunderstand me? Should I have said something smarter?”

 

2. You prepare for every possible outcome

You don’t just plan A. You plan B, C, D, and a secret emergency plan E… just in case A–D spontaneously fail.

 

3. Decisions take you forever

Picking dinner? Hours. Choosing a hoodie colour? Impossible.
(We recommend all the colours, obviously.)

 

4. You worry about things that haven’t even happened yet

Your brain loves a good “what if” scenario — even if the situation doesn’t actually exist.

 

5. Your brain loves analyzing tiny details

Tone of voice? Pause in a message? Emoji choice?
Nothing escapes your inner detective.

 

6. You find comfort in routines

Predictability = peace.
Spontaneous plans = mild internal panic.

 

7. Silence in conversations makes you nervous

You assume you need to fill it — but your brain is too busy thinking of 300 possible responses.

 

8. You often feel mentally “full”

Even when nothing major is happening, your mind is running a marathon in the background.

 

9. You apologise… a lot

Even when it wasn’t your fault. Even when nothing happened.
It’s a reflex at this point.

 

10. You joke about overthinking to cope

Humour makes the chaos feel lighter — and honestly, it works.

 

So… What Now?

If you see yourself in these signs, you’re not alone — not even close.
Overthinking comes from caring deeply, noticing things others miss, and trying your best in a world that doesn’t always slow down.

And while it can be overwhelming, it’s also a part of what makes you thoughtful, creative, and uniquely you.

If you need a little reminder that your brain is doing its best, check out our cozy pieces made for overthinkers — by people who overthink absolutely everything.

🧡 You’re in good company.

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